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Staying positive during tough times

Jun 24, 2024
Esthetician mentor's advice on staying positive even when times are tough in your spa business

Happy Manifestation Monday 💫 Are you  ready to kickstart your week with some positive energy. As esthetician mentors we love to focus on helping esties keep the positive vibes high so that they can be their most successful!

So let's talk about the importance of maintaining a positive mindset, especially when things get tough in your spa business. Life can throw some serious challenges our way, but how we react and adjust our mindset can make all the difference.

 

Embracing a Positive Mindset

A positive mindset doesn’t mean ignoring life’s difficulties. Instead, it’s about going through challenges in your spa business with a sense of peace and determination. Knowing you are exactly where you're suppose to be. When you maintain a positive outlook, you’re better equipped to handle stress, find solutions, and stay resilient.

 

Tips for Staying Positive During Tough Times 

1. Practice Gratitude: I know, easier said than done when life feels hard. Try to take a few moments each day to reflect on the things you’re grateful for in your esthetic business. This simple practice can shift your focus from what’s going wrong to what’s going right.

 

2. Daily Affirmations: Start your day with positive affirmations and "I am" statements. Remind yourself of your strengths and capabilities. For example, “I can do hard things. I've done them before and survived, I can do them again and thrive." Or "I am surrounded by the abundance of love and success. I am right where I am suppose to be"

 

3. Visualization: As an esthetician mentor this is one of my favorites practices. I spend a few minutes in the morning and before bed visualizing my goals and dreams. Picturing myself overcoming challenges and achieving what success looks like to me. Living my ultimate best life if nothing was stopping me.Try it! This reinforces your belief in your ability to succeed.

 

4. Mindfulness and Meditation: These practices can help you stay grounded and calm. Even a few minutes of deep breathing or meditation can reduce stress and increase your sense of well-being. I love to do deep breathes before I start my work day. It helps to regulate your central nervous system to start your day with being calm before the chaos of back to back spa clients. 

 

5. Seek Support: Don’t hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or even us. Sharing your struggles with others who have probably gone through the same can provide relief and remind you that you’re not alone.

 

Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs 

One of the biggest obstacles to maintaining a positive mindset is self-limiting beliefs. These are the negative thoughts and doubts that tell you what you can’t do. They often stem from past experiences, fear of failure, or the opinions of others. It’s crucial to recognize and challenge these beliefs.

 

Here’s how to combat self-limiting beliefs: 

1. Identify Them: Pay attention to your inner dialogue. When you catch yourself thinking, “I can’t do this,” or “I’m not good enough,” acknowledge that these are self-limiting beliefs.

 

2. Challenge Them: Ask yourself if these beliefs are based on facts or assumptions. Replace them with positive affirmations that reflect your true potential.

 

3. Take Action: Prove your self-limiting beliefs wrong by taking small steps toward your goals. Each success, no matter how small, helps to build your confidence and diminish these negative thoughts.

 

 Dealing with Overwhelm 

Feeling overwhelmed as an esthetician and spa business owner is natural, especially when juggling multiple responsibilities and striving to achieve big dreams. It’s important to recognize when you’re feeling this way and take steps to manage it.

 

Tips to manage overwhelm: 

1. Break Tasks Down: Divide your tasks into smaller, more manageable steps. Focus on completing one step at a time rather than the entire project.

 

2. Prioritize: Identify the most important tasks and tackle them first. This helps to ensure that you’re making progress on your top priorities.

 

3. Take Breaks: Allow yourself time to rest and recharge. Short breaks throughout the day can help to maintain your energy levels and reduce stress.

 

The Breakdown Before the Breakthrough

 

It’s often said that you have to go through a breakdown before you can have a breakthrough. When you’re feeling overwhelmed, discouraged, or at your lowest, it can be a sign that you’re on the verge of a significant breakthrough. These challenging moments force us to confront our limitations, rethink our strategies, and push beyond our comfort zones.

 

Embrace the breakdown: 

1. Accept Your Emotions: It’s okay to feel overwhelmed or discouraged. Accept these emotions as a natural part of the process.

 

2. Reflect and Learn: Use these moments as opportunities for reflection. What can you learn from the experience? How can you grow from it?

 

3. Stay Committed: Keep your goals in sight and stay committed to your vision. Remember that every setback is a setup for a comeback.

 

Manifestation in Action 

Visualization is a powerful tool in manifestation. By clearly picturing your goals and dreams, you send a strong message to your subconscious mind. Here’s a quick guide to incorporating visualization into your daily routine:

 

Morning Visualization: As soon as you wake up, spend a few quiet moments visualizing your goals. Imagine how you’ll tackle the day and the positive outcomes you’ll achieve.

  

Evening Visualization: Before you go to sleep, visualize your dreams as if they’re happening right now. Feel the emotions, see the details, and immerse yourself in the experience.

 

By visualizing your success, you reinforce a positive mindset and attract the opportunities and resources needed to make your dreams a reality.

 

 

Remember, you’re not alone on this entrepreneurial  journey. Join our community to share your experiences, gain insights, and support each other. Together, we can create a positive, uplifting environment that fosters growth and success in the spa industry.

 

Stay positive, stay strong, and keep visualizing your dreams into reality. You’ve got this!

 

Wishing you a fantastic week ahead!